Today is my 2nd Blogiversary so I thought it was perfect for me to share a twenty something topic that I have been thinking about for some time. Remember when I wrote a post about stop comparing yourself to others. Well here’s a follow-up to that.
Comparing yourself to your previous self can be just as bad as comparing yourself to others. Hear me out on this one. Smart Twenties knows what I’m talking about. In one of her posts she talked about how her morning routine and how it made her feel guilty for not doing things she used to do. I can agree with her on so many levels. There comes a time when things change. Change is good but can be scary.
I feel like Smart Twenties and I are on the same wavelength with our blog posts. We should collaborate in the future. I have so many ideas for Dear Twenty Something Series Topics.
For me when things change I get stressed and sometimes find myself comparing myself to my previous self. You may think what’s wrong with that? It becomes an issue when you beat yourself up about it. Remember you are not your old self. Your old self has left the building. You can’t expect yourself to be the same person you were before. Things change, change is a sign of growth. Back in the day you were a caterpillar now embrace your wings as a butterfly.
If you are going to compare yourself to your previous self do it instead in a positive way. Tell yourself all the good things you did and look at how far you have come. You can only get better. Like I said in my introduction to my Dear Twenty Something Series post I feel like the twenties are the adult version of teenage years filled with self-doubt, uncertainty and a lot of changes going on. Feeling this way is normal and a lot of twenty somethings feel this way. Remember you are amazing, awesome and as long as you are being the best you can be you are doing something right!
So how do you feel about comparing yourself to your previous self now? What can you do to shake this feeling? I suggest looking at how you want to improve yourself and set new goals. For example, if you feel like you used to be more fit back then concentrate on becoming healthier. When you get your body moving you will feel better and become a new type of fit that is good for you now.
Moving forward I make it my goal to compare myself to my previous self in a positive light. At first it can be a challenge but eventually you will get better at it. Try it, you may surprise yourself. Changing your mindset takes time and if you want to live a happier life it is necessary.
For all my readers out there who are going through this I want to tell you, you are not alone and I want us to inspire each other. Are you with M.E.?
How do you shake the feeling of comparing yourself to your previous self? Share below.